It’s time to thrive and not just survive, mama.
It’s time to thrive and not just survive, mama.
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Hi there I'm Michelle.
Throughout my younger years, I relentlessly pursued happiness. I tried befriending school bullies. I stayed way too long in unhealthy relationships. I was hopped between jobs. And I sought comfort in some very toxic ways. But none of these things brought me what I craved. When I became a mother in 2002, I believed I had finally found everlasting happiness. However, as time went on, I realised I had placed too much reliance on my children to satisfy my emotional needs.
In 2018, my world was shaken when my 13-year-old daughter left home and renounced Islam. I spiralled into a deep depression. After a year of struggling, I sought help from a life coach. Through her guidance, I came to understand the concept of responsibility. I realised that I had burdened my daughter with my pain, fears, and unfulfilled dreams, attempting to relive my childhood through her. What I thought was protection for my daughter from my childhood experiences had turned into a suffocating cycle of control and criticism.
This journey made me realise something deep; I hadn’t felt OK for a long time. I was living in survival mode. As a result, my children got a version of me consumed by anger, anxiety, and overwhelm.
I knew that I held the power to change my situation, and I did just that. While my challenges are still ongoing, one thing is clear: there’s nothing wrong with me.
Regardless of my struggles, I am whole and worthy of a great life - as are my children. And so are you. That's why I'm passionate about supporting you in managing your intense emotions and building a life filled with genuine peace, joy, and authenticity, insha'Allah.
Testimonials
“I worked with Michelle, and for the first time in my life, I became comfortable with feeling uncomfortable emotions, which means I am no longer uncontrollably triggered when they show up. And let’s be real, motherhood has this way of bringing them up!”
“My intensive session with Michelle left me feeling relieved. Physically I felt lighter. She walked me through and guided me in how to get myself into and out of certain states - no matter how uncomfortable or difficult. That was empowering for me. I know that have a lot more control than I believed I did.”
“I always felt pressured to set huge goals or buy everything influencers promoted online to find happiness. Michelle showed me that none of those things would genuinely bring me joy, and she helped me discover what was truly essential for a fulfilling life.”
“At first, I was nervous about spending money on myself. Michelle told me to pray Istikhara and go from there. She also offered me an affordable payment plan and never once pressured me to sign up. I am so glad I did! I feel alive again.”
Frequently Asked Questions
Are your services just for Muslim Women?
Yes, my services are designed to support Muslim women, and there is a specific reason for this approach. It's important to acknowledge that within the Muslim community, there can sometimes be a stigma associated with seeking outside help, even though Islam itself encourages self-improvement and personal growth. I aim to bridge this gap and provide a safe space for Muslim women who are brave enough to embark on this journey. As a busy mother, I'm committed to dedicating my time to these women.
What qualifications do you have?
Over the years, I have acquired training and certifications in a wide range of modalities, including NLP, CBT, Mindset Coaching, Hypnotherapy, Self-Esteem Coaching, Inner Child Healing, Neural Energetic Encoding (timeline), Neural Energetic Wiring, Goal Success Coaching, and EFT. However, it is my lived experiences and personal challenges that truly equip me to assist you. I am here today because of everything I have lived through and grown from, and I'm committed to supporting you in your journey as well.
I CAN’T AFFORD TO PAY. DO YOU OFFER FREE COACHING?
I appreciate your interest in my coaching services. While I understand your financial situation, unfortunately, I'm unable to provide my services for free. May Allah subhaanahu wa ta’aala bless you abundantly with sustenance and increase your income through halal means, granting you financial stability and ease in your affairs, Aameen. Please check out my Instagram page (below) for valuable free content.
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Contact Me
Michelle Venour
Email: therewiredmum@gmail.com
Instagram: @the_rewired_mum
Facebook: therewiredmum
I also provide speaking services for events.
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